treat other ladies like leslie knope treats ann perkins
The worst thing you could do is catch feelings for a person who’s not officially yours. You tend to get mad at everything they do… Forgetting that’s not your place to even feel like that…
Sometimes no matter what you do or how much you grow, some people will never forgive you for the mistakes you have made. That’s okay. Because if you think hard enough you can see that there are MORE people out there that appreciate you regardless of embarrassments, drunk calls, stupid fights, and even betrayals. Those people are your homies.
College has been a really interesting time for me to grow. I must say that I’ve lost a few friends because of dramatic meltdowns or drunken interactions. Some of these people prob think I’m still crazy. I mean really you can never convince someone you’re not crazy after they think you are.
Sometimes I cringe at the thought of my actions towards certain people, but where would I be now if I didn’t do those things? I do feel embarrassed when I see people that I don’t talk to anymore because of specific reasons - that’s a given… but I have really nothing to prove to anyone. Once people have made up their minds about you, there is nothing else left to prove.
You just have to prove to yourself that you have grown and continue to grow regardless of setbacks.
….. maybe I am a little crazy, isn’t everyone?